Another International Women's day. Another march, yet more statements about the pay gap, men's violence against women and I know it is easy that we get this feeling of WTF am I still protesting this shit? I'm with you on that one. This feeling of a cis-sexist...
A busy few weeks are coming up. By the end of the month you will find me at the NELA Fetish Fair Fleamarket in Warwick together with lots of other amazing educators and terrific vendors. Check here for more information. Post the Fair I'm making a...
There was a couple of years ago since we tied last time. It was in London and there was a misunderstanding, of us both not hearing each other, so we had to have a talk. It was an experience which proved we could talk through...
A little while ago I was flirting with a sadist who asked me about what kind of violence that is interesting to me and how I wish to explore it. Violence and pain are for me tightly linked, both as a masochist, as a sadist...
This is a thank you and homage to those who makes it possible for us to be who we are. Without shame. Some of the names mentioned in the first song are various writers and activists. Many of them are Swedish. Here are some names that...
This is a online conversation me and the Lionsmouth had after a performance in London in 2015. The performance itself you can view in the video beneath the text. We had this conversation after sharing many thoughts about performance and rope and we hope you...
I am not a course on the bondage equivalent of a chef's tasting menu. I am not a box to be ticked. I am not a carnival ride. I am not a step on your holistic journey to the complete rope bottoming experience. I am not an opportunity to...
This is an edge. A sharp edge where my fears balance between what I can or cannot control. A blank, shiny, silver edge making me think about trust and about wounds. All in very relative terms, in that way which consist of small flashes or coherrent,...
This writing has done its rounds the last few years. It was good then, but this writing has been poor in regards to representation. There is a sad tendency we are trying to break up as well in regards to gender, and that is the...
This is a post about writing, about rope, about writers block and about rope block. No blocks were harmed in the making of this post. I was in my early 20s' and had just moved to London thinking I would be writing and working for a...